Sunday, February 5, 2012

Part time friends

It seems like the ones you found are just for a certain time. But what if the time you spent together is used up and you still have things to do together, like work or so. Is it possible to stay part time friends and don’t start to hate each other? Or is any friendship supposed to hit a wall so that we can make new friends? You see each other every day, you talk, you are nice to one another but except for work you don’t have anything to talk about. And you wonder where those priceless moments went when you understood each other without speaking. It is always hard to see it, but if you don’t it only gets harder. So what do you do? Pretend like everything is okay and you don’t seem to notice the fear OR do you say something and make it actually worse. But how worse can it get? You are not talking about anything without a voice in your head that say’s: “Something is wrong”. You don’t feel the lightness in your talking, everything seems so well thought trough. So you don’t know what to do and still wonder what went wrong...

1 comment:

Annika said...

:( I know that feeling... it's sad when friendships change for no reason... or probably just because people change over time... and there really isn't anything you can do about it. But as sad as it is, there are friendships that last anyway and maybe that tells us that these "part-time" friendships weren't as great as they seemed. A very sad truth. :(